An Invitation To
Meet Her

Maybe life doesn't look like survival from the outside.

Maybe you're capable. Independent. Successful even.

You get shit done.
You look after people.
You keep moving.

And perhaps you've become so good at holding everything together that nobody would ever think to ask whether you're actually enjoying the life you're holding together.

Because somewhere along the way, surviving can become so familiar that we stop recognising it as survival.

The overthinking.


The bracing.


The people pleasing.


The need to control.


The emotional reactions that seem to come from nowhere.
The exhaustion of constantly managing yourself, your life and everyone around you.

EROS isn't another place to come and find more things to fix about yourself.

It's a place to discover who you are when you stop living as though there was something wrong with you in the first place.

To feel safe in yourself.

To hear your own voice.

To reconnect with desire.

To begin living as the woman you actually are.

EROS I — RETURN

Come out of survival. Feel safe enough to feel ALIVE again.

There comes a point where surviving isn't enough anymore.

Maybe you've spent years being the capable one. Holding everything together. Getting through what needed to be gotten through.

And somewhere along the way, survival became normal.

You function.


You cope.


You keep going.

But underneath it, you might feel exhausted, disconnected, anxious, reactive, numb — or simply like you've forgotten what it feels like to genuinely enjoy being in your own life.

EROS I is where we begin.

An intimate, deeply immersive experience designed to help you slow down enough to hear what's actually happening underneath the noise.

We'll explore the patterns, emotional responses and protective parts that have helped you survive — not so we can judge them, fight them or find another fucking thing about you that needs fixing.

But so you can begin to understand them differently.

To reconnect with yourself.

To soften without everything falling apart.

To make space for pleasure, connection, play and desire again.

To feel safe without needing to control everything around you.

ALIVENESS.

EROS I isn't about escaping your life for a few days.

It's about beginning to feel like you're actually inside it again.

EROS I — RETURN

2–4 October 2026

The Home of EROS
Stanthorpe, Queensland

EROS II — BECOME

You understand yourself.

So why do you keep abandoning yourself?

Maybe you've done the therapy.

Read the books.

Done the courses, the healing, the inner work.

You know your patterns.
You recognise your triggers.
You can probably tell me where half of them came from.

And still...

You second-guess yourself.

You know what you want — then look outside yourself for permission.

You make a decision — then somebody reacts, and suddenly you're questioning it.

You know the boundary needs to be spoken.
You recognise the pattern while you're repeating it.
You notice yourself reaching for something to numb, distract or reassure yourself.

And sometimes you find yourself thinking...

If I understand myself this fucking well,

why am I still doing this?

Because understanding yourself and living as yourself are two very different things.

EROS II — BECOME is an invitation into the space between them.

This isn't about understanding yourself more.

You've already spent enough time trying to work out why you are the way you are.

EROS II is about what happens after you know.

What happens when you hear what you actually want — and the fear arrives?

When you make a choice — and someone you love doesn't understand it?

When an old pattern shows up — and you recognise it in real time?

When one part of you wants to move forward and another part is fucking terrified?

You don't need to get rid of those parts of yourself.

You don't need to become fearless.

You don't need another version of yourself to strive towards.

EROS II is four days of experiencing something different:

HEAR YOURSELF.

STAY WITH YOURSELF.

CHOOSE YOURSELF.

Not perfectly.

Not once and forever.

But for real.

What happens when you stop waiting to become her?

This is the woman who stops asking,

“Am I allowed?”

She hears what she wants.

She makes decisions that sit right with her.

She speaks when something needs to be said.

She allows herself to be seen.

She can disappoint someone without automatically deciding she's done something wrong.

She can feel fear without handing it the fucking steering wheel.

She stops shrinking her life to keep herself — or everybody else — comfortable.

She doesn't need to become fearless.

She becomes less available for abandoning herself every time fear arrives.

And slowly, powerfully, unmistakably...

the woman she kept imagining becomes the woman making the decisions.

I AM HER.

Not a future version of me.
Not a woman I'm trying to become.

Me. Now.

EROS II — BECOME

13–18 November 2026
Byron Bay
Five nights. Six women. Four full days.

This isn't four days of sitting in a room talking about the woman you want to become.

You get to experience her.

Across four days, we move through four distinct experiences:

HEAR HER

What is actually mine?

Begin separating your own voice, wants and responses from the expectations, identities, roles and noise you've learned to carry.

MEET HER

What happens when I choose myself?

Meet the fear, resistance and protective parts that appear when you begin making choices differently — without needing to silence them before you move.

REMEMBER HER

Who am I underneath everything I've learned to be?

Step outside the roles, patterns and identities you've accumulated and reconnect with something larger and more whole — not another version of you to create, but more of the woman already here.

LIVE AS HER

What happens when I stop imagining her and actually let her make the decisions?

Desire. Pleasure. Voice. Choice. Being seen. Taking up space.

Not as concepts.

As lived experiences.

You won't spend four days being told who to become.

You'll be given experiences that invite you to hear yourself, meet yourself, choose for yourself — and discover what happens when you do.

There will be conversation. Reflection. Movement. Time alone. Time together. The ocean. Beautiful food. Laughter. Stillness. Experiences inside the retreat — and experiences out in the world.

Because BECOME isn't something you learn in a room.

It's something you practise living.

FIVE NIGHTS

IN BYRON BAY

Not to escape your life.
To experience what it feels like to be fully inside it.

For five nights, this becomes home.

A private space tucked into the landscape of Byron Bay, where six women get to step away from the noise of everyday life and into something slower, more spacious and more intentional.

Mornings that don't begin with rushing.

Beautiful food around the table.

Bare feet. Ocean air. A swim because you fucking feel like it.

Conversations that continue long after the “work” has finished. Laughter. Quiet. Music. Movement.

Time together — and space to disappear for a while when you want your own company.

Some of our experiences will happen here.

Others will take us beyond these walls — to the beach, into nature, to beautiful places, and into moments where you get to practise listening to yourself in real life.

Because pleasure isn't the reward you earn after you've healed enough.

It's part of being alive.

And neither is this environment simply somewhere beautiful to sleep between sessions.

The environment is part of EROS.

Space. Beauty. Privacy. Nature. Being cared for. Being nourished. Having nowhere else you need to be.

For five nights, you don't have to hold everything together for everybody else.

You get to be here.

JUST SIX WOMEN.

Not because EROS needs to be exclusive.

Because it needs to be intimate.

You won't disappear into a crowd here.

I want to know you. The things you're beginning to notice. The moments you surprise yourself. The moment something gets fucking uncomfortable.

And I want you to know the women beside you too.

Not so you become responsible for their experience.

Not so the group gets to decide what is right for you.

But because there is something powerful about being witnessed while you learn to stay with yourself.

There is space to connect.

Space to be seen.

And space to still belong to yourself.

That's why EROS II is limited to six women.

I BUILT THE TABLE I WANTED A SEAT AT.

I didn't create EROS because I had finally figured myself out.

Quite the fucking opposite.

I created it because I know what it's like to be the woman who has done the work.

I've spent years learning, healing, questioning, understanding, pulling apart patterns and discovering why I do the things I do.

And it changed me.

But there came a point where understanding myself wasn't enough anymore.

I could know exactly why something triggered me — and still abandon myself inside it.

I could recognise a pattern while I was repeating it.

I could know what I wanted — and still find myself looking outside myself for permission.

I could be incredibly self-aware and still, somehow, be living outside myself.

And yet there were moments — and places — where I would suddenly feel it.

Me.

Not the roles. Not the responsibilities. Not the woman managing everything around her.

Just me.

I knew what it felt like to be at home in myself.

I just didn't know how to live there.

And eventually I realised:

I didn't need another thing to understand about myself.

I needed to learn how to stay with myself.

To hear my own voice amongst all the others.

To let fear exist without automatically obeying it.

To make a choice and stay beside myself when somebody else didn't like it.

To experience pleasure without needing to earn it.

To participate in my own fucking life.

And I went looking for the place where all of that came together.

I couldn't find it.

So I built the table I wanted a seat at.

EROS is the culmination of the work I've spent years doing professionally and personally — but it isn't me standing at the front of a room pretending I've reached some magical destination you haven't.

I'm still living this.

I'm still noticing.

Still choosing.

Still discovering where I've left myself and learning to come back.

The difference is that now, I know how to find myself again.

And that's the territory I know how to walk with you.

Hayley Latham

Creator of EROS

Trauma Coach · Hypnotherapist · NLP & Life Coach

EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO BE HERE.

Your EROS II — BECOME experience includes:

Five nights accommodation in our private Byron Bay retreat home

Four full days of the EROS II — BECOME experience

All EROS sessions, guided experiences and materials

Nourishing meals throughout your stay

Our Crystal Castle & Shambhala Gardens experience

Beach and nature-based experiences

Space for rest, reflection, swimming, connection and time alone

An intimate group of no more than six women

My support and facilitation throughout our time together

Accommodation is available in both private and shared rooms.

Travel to and from Byron Bay, personal purchases and any optional activities outside the EROS experience are not included.

BUT WHAT IF I'M THE ONE IT DOESN'T WORK FOR?

Maybe you've invested in yourself before.

Therapy. Courses. Programs. Retreats.

Maybe some of them helped.

Maybe some left you wondering why everybody else seemed to get the breakthrough and you didn't.

And maybe part of you is already asking:

What if I'm too fucked up?
What if I don't get the result?
What if I make a fool of myself?
What if I don't fit in?
What if I spend the money and regret it?
What if I'm the one who somehow fails at this too?

Here's what I want you to know.

There is no way to win EROS.

Which means there isn't really a way to fail it either.

You don't have to have the biggest breakthrough in the room.

You don't have to cry.

You don't have to share something you're not ready to share.

You don't have to become fearless.

And you don't have to leave Byron as some shiny new fucking version of yourself.

There is no version of you that I'm waiting for you to become.

Your invitation is much simpler than that.

Notice yourself.

Hear what is true for you.

Stay with yourself when something feels uncomfortable.

Make the choices that are yours to make.

And let your experience be your experience.

YOU DON'T HAVE TO DECIDE FROM THIS PAGE.

If something in EROS II has spoken to you, the next step isn't to convince yourself to come.

It's a conversation.

A space for us to talk about where you are, what you've been noticing, what you want, and what has brought you here.

You can ask me anything.

We'll talk through the experience, accommodation, the investment and finance options if they're relevant to you.

And we'll explore whether EROS II feels like the right next step for you.

There is no expectation that you arrive at the call already knowing your answer.

The conversation is part of finding it.

Because before you ever arrive in Byron, EROS has already begun asking you something:

What do I want?

Not what should I do?

Not what would everybody else think?

Not what does fear have to say about it?

What do I want?

And whatever your answer is...

I want it to be yours.

BOOK YOUR EROS CONVERSATION

45-minute private conversation with Hayley.

THE RETURN — FREE EXPERIENCE

NOT READY TO TALK? START HERE.

THE RETURN

A 10-minute guided experience to hear yourself beneath the noise.

If you've spent so long being Mum, partner, daughter, caretaker, problem-solver, peacekeeper — or simply the woman who holds everything together — that you're no longer sure where you went…

Put your headphones on.

Take ten minutes.

And come back to yourself.

Voices Of
Eros

"If I could live at EROS & be that ME all the time, I would"

A.B

“I left feeling alive again for the first time in a long time.”

A.m

"I slept all night for the first time in a long time, I feel so calm."

C.S

Your Invitation

You don't have to know which path is yours yet.

Maybe you know something needs to change, but you don't know where to begin.

Maybe EROS I is calling you.

Maybe you're already feeling the pull toward EROS II.

Or maybe a retreat isn't what you need at all, and individual work together would serve you better.

You don't have to figure that out alone.

Spend 45 minutes with Hayley.

A complimentary private conversation to explore what's happening for you, where you feel stuck, what you're ready for next — and which path of support feels most aligned.

No pressure.
No obligation.
No need to arrive knowing exactly what you need.

Just come as you are.

EROS

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